i agree that i have my way of socialising with girls. guy friends around me (especially our beloved TanKY) kept asking questions like, “how did you know that girl??”; “teach me a few tactics leh..”; “wow, you are good with girls”and etc. frankly speaking, kar wei is a shy guy. i am just ordinary and i blushes when i talk to girls sometimes. however i do admit i do have the ability to think, process and speaking quickly. during the process step, whatever i think will be sort of being refined such that it will turn out to be something nice and less vulgar without losing its truth. but during men’s talk, i will just skip the processing step since most of us wouldn mind the unciviliseness.

to those people who doesnt have a girlfriend and yet complaining the whole world is against them (sounds like someone), heres some tip. dont try to change what you cannot change. try to do something to touch the girl, do some homework… for instance, rent a few series of taiwan/korean/japan soap dramas and study them… there must be a reason why girls love the male lead of the show so much. when the girl run out into the rain, go after her (dont bring the umbrella) hug her, tells her how much u loved her and she’ll love you for that.

For the girls, its pretty simple. just buy/borrow/download some japanese AV shows and do what the AV idol does in the show to the guy. he’ll definitely fall for you… :p