long long ago, wind tried to convince sun that he is better. meanwhile, he saw a man with a coat walking along the road. eager to prove himself, he posted the challenge to sun “whoever can make the coat came off from the man will be the winner”, wind said.
wind blew hard, and harder… the man grabs the coat tightly and the harder the wind blows, the tighter the man grabs his coat. wind gave up and its now sun’s turn to take up the challenge. sun simply went above the man and smile brightly… the man feels so hot that he removed his coat on his own.. Sun wins the challenge.
very often, we try to force into what we want. when u wants to convince someone or prove someone wrong, by saying “according to blah blah blah, i think u are wrong…”, or “we have learnt this before wat! so and so says this.. this.. this.. and that.. that .. that….” this way, u make yourself superior to the other person and even though hes in the wrong, it makes him wants to defend himself even more… why?? its because of his pride. maybe u might be able to convince him wrong, but deep inside he’ll still reject because he lost his pride.
tanky is as stubborn maybe because we used the previous approach against him… we’ve put him down in everyday and he feels hurt.